There’s only one relationship you’ll have every single day of your life for the rest of your life — the relationship you have with yourself. It’s one of the most important relationships you possess, but many of us don’t take the time and effort to make it a loving, empowering experience. Most of us fail to prioritize self-love because we don’t know we should or we struggle so much with it that it feels easier to avoid the hard work. But loving yourself is essential for living a positive, present life, a life in which you can experience true happiness, acceptance, and peace.
Loving yourself means accepting mind, body, and heart. As important as the concept of self-love is, it’s not always something we strive for because, unfortunately, many things stand in the way of self-love. One major roadblock that blocks the path to loving ourselves is how we think about self-love. Many of us don’t love ourselves fully because we’ve been led to believe that self-love is selfish, greedy, or indulgent. Or we’ve been raised in an environment (or a society) that doesn’t promote self-love and, instead, encourages judgment, comparisons, and self-criticism. Or, in some cases, we’re afraid to love ourselves because achieving a deep sense of love for the self would lead to a greater sense of peace and happiness — two things that sound wonderful in theory, but that could potentially change the way we view ourselves and the world. Even the most positive of mindset shifts can be intimidating.
But if you want to make the most of your life — if you want to have a deep and unconditional understanding and respect for who you are, who you’ve been, and who you will be in the future — you have to learn to love who you are, inside and out. Having struggled with self-love myself, I know how difficult it can be to achieve it. It’s an on-going process and it requires dedication and determination, but, wow, is it worth it.
Once you cultivate a strong love for yourself, anything is possible. I know how much learning to love myself has changed my life, and I wanted to share all of this self-love goodness with others so I created this absolutely comprehensive guide to loving yourself. The Loving Your Self workbook will take you on a journey of self-love filled with encouragement, inspiration, and exercises to spark true and lasting love for yourself. If you’re hesitant at all about embarking on this journey, keep in mind some of the most important reasons to love yourself:
Loving yourself improves your relationship with others
Loving yourself creates an overall more positive outlook
Loving yourself increases your self-respect (and respect for others)
Loving yourself opens you up to pursuing passions and meaningful work
Loving yourself makes it easier to find the goodness in others
As you can see, there are many reasons self-love is essential for creating a more positive, more present life. In the workbook, you’ll be challenged to uncover truths about yourself and about your life. You will be asked to look deeply at what matters most to you (and you can do more of that with the Finding Your Self workbook). If you take the time for self-love, you open yourself up to improving every single aspect of your life.
ABOUT THE WORKBOOK
Loving Your Self is a empowering workbook designed to teach, inspire, and increase self-love. The instant-downloadable PDF is a go-to resource for learning about self-love, engaging in exercises that increase self-love, and discovering more about the various ways you can (and should!) love who you are. The workbook features innovative, inspiring, and empowering activities to help you uncover a deep, lasting love of yourself. The workbook is broken down into four sections:
- Loving Your Mind: insights on how to break negative thought patterns, how to master the art of positive self-talk, and how to understand the power of “I am”;
- Loving Your Body: insights on how to love your body, how to embrace your flaws, and how to put an end to comparisons;
- Loving Your Heart: insights on how to reclaim your muchness, how to let go of the past, and how to forgive yourself and others;
- Loving Your Life: insights on how to focus on the positive aspects of your life, how to cut out complaining, and how to establish boundaries with others.
In addition to these four sections — each of which is loaded with information, activities, and worksheets — the Conclusion features:
- A set of self-love reminders to print + post up wherever you need self-love boost
- A self-love cheat sheet to fill out with your top self-love reminders
- A list of self-love resources featuring my favorite self-love websites + books
If you’ve been struggling with self-love (or just want to reinforce your current self-love practices), this workbook is exactly what you need. As I was creating the workbook, I went through some difficult situations. I found myself answering the questions and doing the exercises as I was creating them, and it was amazing what it did for my self-esteem, self-respect, and self-love. The very act of creating (and working through) this workbook had such a positive impact on my life, and I’m so excited to share that experience with you.
I’ve created a lot of things since I started Positively Present — Stay Positive: Daily Reminders from Positively Present, The Positively Present Guide to Life, Finding Your Self, The ABC’s of Self-Love, and many other e-books — and this has been one of my favorite projects to work on. Self-love is so, so important. It provides the foundation for your relationships, your work, and your life. It’s something every single person should be able to do and I hope this workbook will help anyone who is struggling to love him or herself. If you’re looking for more love, peace, acceptance, and meaning in your life, this workbook is for you. Click the box below to grab your copy and begin the amazing experience of loving who you are!