On Friday, my mom celebrated her birthday, and it never feels like I’m able to express how grateful I am for her presence in my life in the form of tangible gifts. You see, my mom is the absolute best mom. I know lots of people think their mom is the best, but I truly did get the best one. And this time of year, with her birthday and Mother’s Day, always reminds me of how fortunate I am to call her mine.
As someone who is incredibly fortunate to have an amazing mom, I sometimes feel guilty talking about the topic of how great my mother is. I know, for a lot of people, mothers — and motherhood — is complex. Whether you are a mother, want to be a mother, don’t want to be mother, don’t have a relationship with your mother, or have a difficult relationship with your mother, there are many reasons why this time of the year might be challenging. The whole country seems to shout “MOM!” in honor of Mother’s Day, and if you’re not a in a positive place with that word, it must be incredibly difficult. Knowing this, when I came up with the notion to create these exclusive Mother’s Day prints (details below!), I hesitated. I didn’t want to make things more difficult for those who are motherless (or mother-troubled). But I also knew that many of you have wonderful, loving, and inspiring mothers that, like mine, have likely influenced your life in a way that’s almost impossible to put into words.
So, I thought a great deal about these prints, and I did my best to create illustrations and words that could apply not only to those who have wonderful mothers, but also to those mother-like figures that many have in their lives. Whether it’s a mentor, a family member, a friend, or a teacher, there are so many amazing women that give those in their lives a L.E.G. up with Love, Encouragement, and Guidance. And this time of year is as good as any to celebrate them and the valuable support they’ve given us. Read on to see my thoughts about the L.E.G. up I’ve been given by my incredible mom (and check out the prints, too!).
One of the most amazing things about mothers (or mother-like figures — I’ll just be using the word “mothers” from here on out to make it easier, but know that these words apply not only to biological mothers, but to all kinds of wise and influential women who make the lives around them better) is their unconditional love. Over the years, I’ve done a lot of stupid things. I’ve said a lot of things that probably should have been kept to myself. I’ve been a brat and I’ve been a bitch. I’ve been cranky and I’ve been quarrelsome. (I’ve also done some cool and kind things, too, but those are so much easier to love!) Through it all — my highs and lows, my good times and my bad — I’ve never once questioned my mother’s love for me. That’s the great thing about great moms: they love you unconditionally, without hesitation, and regardless of the nonsensical choices you make in life. They’re there for you in good times and in bad, and that’s a pretty amazing thing when you think about it!
Not only is a mother’s love unconditional, but it comes with a big heaping side of encouragement. No matter what I’ve been doing in my life, I felt my mom encouraging me to go for it, to take a leap, to try what I wanted to try. Even when things weren’t working out as planned, I’ve always knew that my mom had my back and believed in me. It sounds silly — of course my mom believed in me; that’s what moms do! — but it’s not something that should be taken for granted. Not everyone is lucky to have a mother and, of those that do, not everyone is lucky to have one that is so encouraging and supportive. It can be easy to laugh off a mom’s encouragement if it’s something you’ve had all of your life, but it’s a wondrous and magical thing. Without the support of my mom, her warm glow of belief-in-me, I might have not have tried all of the things I was brave enough to try. I might not be anything like the person I am today.
One of the benefits of having the best mom in the world is that she’s offered me just the right amount of guidance over the years. She’s given me advice and is always happy to listen (without judgment, I might add!) to whatever quandary I’m facing. Through her words and her actions, she’s taught me how to be a good friend, how to negotiate without fear, how to use attitude to improve circumstances (the very foundation of this site, in fact!). While I’ll never be as wonderful as she is, I like to think I’ve learned a thing or two from her about what it means to be a good human being. She’s given me advice and inspiration, but she’s never pushed me to do what she wants. She shows me the way without forcing me down a path, which I know isn’t the case for all mothers. I’m incredibly lucky to have been given support and guidance without any pressure or expectations, and I’m forever grateful for that perfect balance.
I hope you, too, are lucky to have a wonderful mom (or mother-like figure) in your life to give you a L.E.G up in life! If you want to show her (or anyone else in your life) a little love with a special, limited-edition print, check out the shop here. These prints are available only until Sunday, April 28, 2019. Once they’re gone, they’re gone, so grab them while you can! (And use code “mom” for 20% off!)
Aww so sweet! It’s heartwarming to see the love you and your mom share.
We all think our mothers are the best, even though they’re not perfect, they’re irreplaceable. I just dedicated an article to the 7 best life lessons I learned from my mother as she is turning 60 this May. She’s been through a lot from growing up during the Cultural Revolution era in China, an abusive marriage, her only child (well me) getting cancer as a young adult, and losing her second husband last year. One thing my mom does that’s quite cute is she’ll still introduce me as “xiao hai” (it means a child in Chinese) to people even though I’m 31 this year! It just goes to show in your mother’s eyes you’re forever a darling.
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