Okay, so I’ll say right up front that the “starting over” I had to cope with last past week is related to the loss of an app, not a person or a situation. It might sound dramatic, but it was just a tad traumatic for me to lose access to the place where I spend a ton of time these days: my Procreate drawing app.
When it started crashing repeatedly and the Procreate team (despite their best efforts!) wasn’t able to fix it, I knew it was inevitable: I would have to delete and reinstall. Now, I know this sounds silly — Who cares?! You had to delete an app! — but it was, much as I hate to admit even to myself, kind of a big deal. Yes, I had backed up most of my work (PSA: ALWAYS BACK UP EVERYTHING!), but deleting the app meant losing all of my settings and favorite brushes, and facing the daunting task of reinstalling over two years’ worth of work.
The app crashed every time I tried to open a file and my first response was, Why now? Why me? I see artists doing way more complex art on the app and I don’t see much of anything in the message boards about having to delete and reinstall! This, of course, is a pretty typical reaction to a loss. First I was desperately hoping it could be fixed (denial) and then, when I realized it couldn’t, I was upset. It was a very strange feeling. I knew it was just an app, and the situation could be way worse (I had, after all, backed up most of my work), but there’s something deeply unsettling about having something you use every single day taken away from you without warning.
Equally as unsettling: realizing how much of my life had become intertwined with an app. The first night without it, I was restless. To unwind, I usually spend time drawing and, while I was waiting to see if Procreate could be fixed, I tried playing around with other drawing apps. It just wasn’t the same. They didn’t work like Procreate did. They didn’t have my brushes and my settings, all of my colors and sketched-out ideas. I was unnerved. But I decided that, if this wasn’t a time to try being positively present, what was?
After that first night, I decided to pay attention, to see if I could learn anything from this situation. Obviously, I couldn’t get the app back in its original state, but that didn’t mean I couldn’t learn from the experience. So here’s what I took away from this experience:
TRYING TO CONTROL EVERYTHING IS POINTLESS.
As someone who is decidedly “Type A,” control is something I love to pretend I possess. All of the organization, backing-up, and planning in the world can’t prevent life from happening, though. Situations like this one — however silly it might seem — are great reminders for those who enjoy control. They show us that, no matter what we do, things are sometimes going to fall apart or go wrong. That’s part of life and the quicker you learn to take it in stride, the quicker you’ll be able to bounce back. Over the years, I’ve gotten better at letting go of control, but it’s always good for me to be reminded that there are a lot of things in life that I can’t have authority over.
STAYING POSITIVE MAKES IT MUCH BETTER.
When things are going wrong — particularly when they have a big impact on your day-to-day life — it can be tricky to stay positive, but if there’s one thing that this experience has taught me, it’s that positivity does
make things better. Staying optimistic obviously didn’t fix the situation (I still had to deal with the app-less days and the reinstallation craziness), but by staying positive and knowing that, no matter how the situation ended up, I’d be able to make do, made it a lot easier to cope with. This particular situation also reminded me how far I’ve come in terms of trying to be more positive and present. Positivity takes practice, but it works
RELYING ON ONE THING IS DANGEROUS.
Though I can’t deny that I love Procreate (and nothing reminds you of how much you love something like losing it!), another lesson learned from this experience was that relying only on one program is dangerous. If something were to happen to Procreate, or I wasn’t able to use it for whatever reason, I’d be really upset. Losing Procreate for a few days was a good reminder not to put all of my eggs in one basket. Sure, it’s fine to have a favorite thing / person / etc., but it’s dangerous to rely only on one thing. Diversity — in apps and in life — is important. Don’t wait till you’ve lost your one thing to realize that. Losing Procreate for a few days prompted me to explore other drawing apps. None of them can replace my beloved Procreate, but now I’ve at least dabbled a bit in other options.
FEELING HOW YOU FEEL IS OKAY.
This was a very unexpected (but important!) lesson: I realized that it’s okay to feel how you feel, even if seems a little ridiculous. When this first happened, my first reaction was to be upset and my second was to say to myself, Don’t be ridiculous. It’s just an app. You don’t have any right to be upset about something so trivial when there are so many important things going on in the world! While those are rational thoughts, comparison isn’t very helpful, especially because emotions aren’t a finite resource. I can be upset about losing an app and recognize the millions of ways I’m fortunate and feel empathetic for those who are suffering from real problems. Just because a problem is trivial doesn’t mean you’re not allowed to feel something.
HAVING A FRESH START CAN BE PRODUCTIVE.
One of the best things I discovered over the past week is that, even if you don’t necessarily like it, a fresh start can be a good thing sometimes. For weeks I’d be wanting to better organize my files. I’d thought about getting rid of some old brushes I never use. I’d worried if maybe I wasn’t backing up my work frequently enough. Well, when the app crashed, I was given a chance to revisit my organization and back-up and got to start fresh with my brushes and color palettes. I even think the new brush I’m using is better than my old favorite! Yes, there are a ton of little annoyances, but there’ve been some really productive aspects of this fresh start, which is a great reminder that you never know what good things a bad situation can bring!
As silly as it might sound, the loss (and reinstallation) of Procreate was a bit of a shake-up in my world. But, as frustrating as it was, it was ultimately a positive thing, especially because I learned a lot about the app (and myself!). If you’re in the midst of starting over in any aspect of your life, try to focus on these lessons and it’ll be much easier to cope with the changes (chosen or unexpected!). Even frustrating times can bring about some wisdom!
If you do any digital drawing, I highly recommend checking out the Procreate app
. I’ve been using it for years and this is the first time I’ve ever had any trouble with it (and the Procreate team did everything possible to help me sort it out). Other than this one fluke breakdown, it’s an AMAZING program for digital art (on iPad or iPhone). If you already use it, check out my Procreate brushes here